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‘Anti-Cheating Ring’ Designed to Prevent Adultery

When you cant control being faithful to your spouse, a product offers a solution.  Why have personal responsibility when you pay for something to be responsible for you?

By Audrey Barrick , Christian Post Reporter
June 27, 2012|5:22 pm

It’s called the “anti-cheating ring.” Made of titanium, the wedding band is designed to prevent adultery.

Featured on none other than thecheeky.com, which features inappropriate gifts, the ring was created for “people intent on cheating.”

The website says it specifically had men like “Arnold, Tiger and two timing IMF guy” in mind when making the product.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, former governor of California, confessed last year that he committed adultery with a staff member who worked for the family for 20 years, which resulted in a son. The affair had taken place over a decade ago.

Two years ago, pro-golfer Tiger Woods confessed to multiple extramarital affairs. “I cheated,” he admitted.

As for Dominique Strauss-Kahn, former International Monetary Fund chief, he was accused last year by a hotel maid of sexual assault. He admitted to “moral failing” but denied raping her.

The anti-cheating ring contains engraving on the inside that says “I’m Married.” The engraving is meant to leave an imprint on the finger which “means that when you are in the ‘Club’ and an attractive woman…or man comes along to chat, slipping your wedding ring off is not an option. The mark left on your skin says…’I’m Married,'” the website says.

So far, the public isn’t taking the ring too seriously. “This is a joke, right?” said one commenter on boingboing.net. “If you need a ring – or a brand – to tell that you’re married, you’re not,” said another.

The ring comes with a lifetime guarantee – “’til death and all that.”

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God says to get Married?

I find the number of young Christians that I encounter that truly believe that getting married and having a family is the purpose they have in life to be an interesting phenomenon. When I say young here, I am actually referring to men and women under the age of 40. I suppose that makes young relative, but once you get closer to 40, marriage might be a nice idea but not as much of a necessity.

These youngsters, I am with in this age group so I can say that, seem so lost as they are not getting married right away and feel that something is impeding God’s will. This something is usually called the devil by some, but I think it is a different source that I will address a bit later. There is a determination in them that drives them to find a mate and usually causes them to whine about the delay in their life.

Women make up the majority of this group, but there are men in this group as well. The group is made up of many denominations as well, so it is not just fundies. They come from large cities and smaller towns as well. The demographics for this group is fairly diverse with the exception that they all come from the south. Well, the South and Midwest regions as some come from Ohio, Indiana and one from Michigan.

What gets me is the ideology that these people hold on to that their life is not complete without a mate. Now I am sure, in some of the cases that marriage is in the future for them. Some of them will get tired of waiting and end up settling on their spouse, but they will justify it as the will of God, so it will all work out in the end. Typically, I have found that they usually end up in divorce with the saying that it was not in God’s will for the marriage to last

This is what brings me to the frustration that I am sharing today. Why is it God’s will for someone to get married, but it is not His will for the marriage to work? Why does the Bible say that God hates divorce, but despite that, it’s just not His will for the marriage to work out? We all know that the lack of will comes back to the people getting the divorce. It is not their will to work on the marriage and compromise as to who they are to make a solid “one”. It was most likely not God’s will for the marriage to happen in the first place, but that need to get married was so strong that it confused people as to what the force behind the desire actually was.

Where do these people get the idea that they are supposed to get married and live happy Christian lives? I am not speaking ill of them, but this mentality must be coming from somewhere, right?

To me, this is another case where the church has gotten confused with western culture. The American dream is to get married and have a family and all the stuff that goes along with that story that we have been fed over generations. That is the culture we grew up in. One of the ways we measure our success in life is over our family situation. Until recently, it was odd for men to have not been married and women who never married were seen as a sort of pariah.

Getting married is not our biblical purpose though.

Notice my use of the word “biblical” which makes the sentence more authoritative and factual. The Bible does not really address us and marriage though. Yes, Jesus said a man should cling to a woman and the two fleshes becomes one. Paraphrased, but Jesus never said everyone should go out and get married.

When we are looking at the history of the time frame that the Bible was written over, we see that people got married. Actually, men wanted a wife and struck a deal with the father of a woman and got a bride. She did not have a lot of choice in the matter. Women still do not have a say over it in parts of the world, but this process was one based on culture practices and not the directive of God. God did say go forth and populate the earth (Gen 9:7), but He said that to Noah after wiping out the rest of mankind.

Maybe we are just taking that directive too literally. Are we all supposed to go out and have kids? The earth cannot sustain that type of population build up. As it is, we will exceed the natural production of the earth in less than 30 years, so why do we all need to populate the earth?

Guess it could be to create more Christians, which means more people in heaven, but we all know that kids born to Christian parents are not automatically Christians. Jesus told us to go forth and spread the gospel so people would be saved, so that is more in line with adoption than reproducing. Paul said that we should get married if we were unable to tame the desires of the flesh (i.e. wanting to have sex), but mentioned that it would compromise our relationship with God to some degree. It is hard to be totally focused on God when we are focused on pleasing our partner as well as ourselves.

I think we can agree that the true purpose for the Christian, as well as everyone else even if they refuse to acknowledge it, is to worship God with everything. That is what we are told that God wants right?

So why do we allow western culture take over Christianity? When we are given a way to live and it is laid out pretty clearly, why do we allow the manmade ideas to take over our and become our focus?

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