Gay couple asked to reverse shirt at Dollywood

Gay couple asked to reverse shirt at Dollywood


A lesbian couple is asking for changes at Dollywood after an employee asked one of the women to turn her T-shirt reading “marriage is so gay” inside-out to avoid offending others on a recent visit to the Tennessee theme park complex.

Olivier Odom and Jennifer Tipton said Tuesday they want the park to be more inclusive of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender families after Odom was asked to reverse her shirt when they visited Dollywood Splash Country next to the Pigeon Forge amusement park. The story was first reported by WBIR-TV in Knoxville.

Dollywood spokesman Pete Owens said on Tuesday that Dollywood is open to all families, but their dress code policy is to ask people with clothing or tattoos that could be considered offensive to change clothes or cover up.

Owens said the couple was not asked to leave and complied with the rules to reverse the shirt when asked.

“The park is open every day to everybody,” Owens said. “We try to provide an environment for families of all shapes and sizes to enjoy themselves.

Owens said park officials were discussing the matter and would speak with the couple directly.

Odom said that they visited the water park July 9 with friends and their friends’ two children when she was asked by a person at the front gate to turn her shirt inside out because it was a family park.

Odom said she complied so as not to make a scene in front of the children, but felt offended.

“That’s what we found so offensive that he said it was a family park,” Tipton said. “Families come in a wide range of definitions these days and we were with our family.”

The two said they felt they needed to file a complaint with Dollywood because they believed it was important to stand up for their beliefs in marriage equality.

“If marriage equality is going to happen, it’s not going to happen if people sit at home quietly,” Odom said.

Odom said they understand the park can have dress code policies, but she felt Dollywood needed to make their policies clear and provide better training for employees when determining what is considered offensive.

Odom and Tipton are not legally married, but held a ceremony last year in North Carolina. They wrote an email to the park asking the park “to implement policies that are inclusive of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people; conduct staff sensitivity training; and issue a public statement indicating that the park is inclusive of all families.”

Owens said the couple’s complaints have sparked discussion at the park about the dress code, a policy that park employees deal with frequently because of the thousands of visitors every year.

The couple was upset because park employees considered their message offensive. They were offended, because their family unit was not treated like a heterosexual family unit would be. I can see why they would be offended, because it can be taken as an attack on their way of life. For me, I see it more as an intolerance towards their message of marriage equality rather than an attack on their lifestyle, but when the identity of a person is so intertwined with being homosexual, it makes it harder to see the distinction between those lines.

I might be offended if I were asked to cover up a shirt with a religious message if the establishment I was visiting considered it offensive. I understand that people consider my message as offensive, so I wouldn’t be surprised when it happened. If the message was that important to me, I would not give the establishment any of my money. I have stopped doing business with Home Depot over their support for gay marriage, so there is no way I would knowingly support an anti-Christian organization.

I am happy that this couple decided to take a public stand against Dollywood. I am interested to see if Dollywood is willing to take a stand as well.

The Foolishness of the Cross

The message about the cross doesn’t make any sense to lost people. But for those of us who are being saved, it is God’s power at work. As God says in the Scriptures, “I will destroy the wisdom of all who claim to be wise. I will confuse those who think they know so much.” What happened to those wise people? What happened to those experts in the Scriptures? What happened to the ones who think they have all the answers? Didn’t God show that the wisdom of this world is foolish? God was wise and decided not to let the people of this world use their wisdom to learn about him. Instead, God chose to save only those who believe the foolish message we preach. Jews ask for miracles, and Greeks want something that sounds wise. But we preach that Christ was nailed to a cross. Most Jews have problems with this, and most Gentiles think it is foolish. (1Co 1:18-23)

It does not make sense to people that they need to be saved. That they could be seen as evil or wicked as that image is not what they see. Those who are not saved do not see a need for a savior as they are not worse than the person next to them. Often, they are no worse than the people in the Church who are telling them they need to be saved. When trying to share the Gospel, you have to talk to them in a language that they will understand and address areas that they consider true.

We reach out to those who are hurt and are lost. Those who are longing and want to be loved. Why did Jesus love the people before he told them to stop sinning? Show people God before you tell people about God. Then, the message has a better chance of being received.